It is with great sadness that the family of Matthew ‘Matt’ F. K. Loh, 56, of Calgary, Alberta announces that he passed away on March 2, 2018 in Edmonton, Alberta.
Matt will be lovingly remembered by his children Brittany (Logan) Gray, Joshua, Madison, Declan and their mother Patricia, his parents John and Inge, his brother Michael (Angela) and their children. Matt will also be forever remembered by his nieces, nephews, extended family and dear friends.
A native of Norman, Oklahoma, Matt moved with his family to Calgary in 1977. His life, career, family and interests lead him across the world from Indonesia to Tuktoyaktuk. As a respected Civil Engineer in the energy sector, Matt was a devoted mentor, friend and loyal colleague to many throughout his career.
Matt served on boards, committees and volunteered for numerous organizations, usually in support of his children’s Ringette, Hockey and Soccer. He was a long time member of Grace Presbyterian Church where he also was an elder. In addition he was a proud and tireless supporter of the Ride to Conquer Cancer and was preparing to ride in his fifth race.
Matt touched a lot of people through his generosity and helpfulness and was always willing to do what was needed to get the job done. He will be missed immeasurably.
A memorial service was held at Grace Presbyterian Church on April 21st, 2018 followed by a Celebration of Life for Matt at Harvest Alliance Church.
In life as in death Matt would wish his passing to support the things dearest to him. In lieu of flowers please visit www.gofundme.com/rememberingMatt
Britt, I am so sorry to hear about your dad, I only met him once when you and Samantha shared your place when her car was flooded, my prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.
Our family is deeply saddened by the loss of Matt. He was such a wonderful man who had such a warm smile. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. ❤️💙
We had the privilege of meeting Matt at Mike’s 50th birthday party and it was evident that he was a very special member of the Loh clan. We are so saddened by his loss to your family and to all of us. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you and will continue as you grieve his absence in your lives.
I had the honour and pleasure to call Matt a friend and colleague, I miss him greatly, miss his infectious smile, good nature and calming influence. I could always count on Matt to do the heavy lifting when there were client challenges and always Matt was an honorable gentleman.
Today I’m left with a heavy heart
Rest In Peace my friend.
I had the privilege of working with Matt back in the day (1993) at a small firm. My condolences go out to his family & relatives, he was taken far too soon.
RIP Matt
We only had a short time to get to know Matt but in that time we came to appreciate his friendliness and generousity, his helpfulness, his love for his family and his sense of humour.
Lyn and Ian Gray
Dear Matt’s Family,
I first met Matt on our work trip to Peru and had the pleasure of working with him over the past few years. His passing has deeply saddened me as both a work colleague and personal friend. Matt encouraged me in all ways, both at work and in my recent endeavour to establish an arm of an international charitable organization in Calgary. Matt was always full of good ideas and encouragement. I will miss him.
Matt had funny stories about his kids, parents and brother – all of whom he spoke of often.
Declan, Brittany, Madison and Josh – be assured that your Dad’s greatest pride was his children. He spoke of you with humour and love.
My heart goes out to you all. Losing Matt is a great loss for all of us.
Susan
Dear Britt & Logan and family
We are both so incredibly sorry to hear about your dad. We want you to know that we are here for you and at any time when you need a get away you have a place in Vancouver and the lake you can come to at any time. Going forward hang on to your precious memories of your dad and hold them close. Love to you all.
Stephanie & Mike
Matthew was my first best friend back in the 1960’s in Duncan. We both lived on G Street. We played with his dog, Missy, a beautiful Collie. Because of Missy, my family had many pet Collies. Matthew loved Matchbox cars. His mother was so wonderful, sparking a life long interest in Germany. I even found out I am German on my mother’s side. Matthew and I played, had much fun, and both attended Mrs. Crawford’s Kindergarten. We were very sad when we were not in the same first grade class at Woodrow Wilson Elementary school. My first broken heart was when Matthew moved to Guymon, Oklahoma. We did not get back from a family vacation in time to say goodbye. I cried in the back seat ot the family car and looked at the stars above. I never say Matthew again. But on August 2 every year, for some reason, I always remembered his birthday. I am deeply saddened to learn of Matthew’s passing. He was a very sweet little boy and a great friend to me. I am glad he grew up to be a great man. John and Inge I am very sorry for your loss. I wish there was some way I could attend but my location in Oklahoma makes it impossible. You are in my prayers. With love, Steve Munholland.
In my last message, I failed to give my condolences to Patricia and the children. I apologize. I just want you to know Matthew touched people even as a little boy. I was very lucky to be part of his life. I will never forget him.
In the summer of 1966, I believe, I looked out the window of my work to see two little boys, my son Steve and his friend, Matthew, outside. Apparently, Steve had told Matthew his daddy could open up the Coke machine and give them a Coke. So, they came the five blocks from G Street to my work on D Street, close to the highway. Steve was on his tricycle. Matthew was on his bicycle with training wheels. I panicked and yelled at them to get home……fast. You should have seem them pedaling! Looking back, I should have gave them a Coke and took them home, telling them not to do this again, at least for a few years! It is a story I like to tell. Those were great days in Duncan, Oklahoma. I, too, am very sorry about Matthew passing. He was a very good boy. My condolences to the family, especially our former neighbors John and Inge. Steve lost his daughter and my granddaughter in 2002. No parent should have this happen to them. Thank you for the opportunity to leave this message to your family. John Munholland.
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss. May peace and comfort find you during this difficult time.
Our condolances to Brittany and the family. We will miss Matt at the ringette games. I’m sorry we will be out of town on Saturday.
Hi everyone, Although I will not be with you in person on Sat, I will certainly be sharing with you in spirit and thought. Blessings and love, Joan